I feel very much to appreciate the privilege and blessing extended to
me, and this opportunity of meeting with the brethren and sisters in
this Ward, and also to have the opportunity, for a little time, to
discuss with you those things that are of interest to us as Saints.
There are a great many things connected with the publishing of the
Gospel, and its being believed on the part of the people, and being
received by them as a rule of practice, that is interesting for us to
consider. There is a great deal of variety connected with it, although
its principles are ever the same, and the truth is unchangeable. Yet
truth never, even with us, puts on all its beauty, until we comprehend
it fully, and realize the great influence that the views we entertain
with regard to the truth may exercise over our actions. It becomes
important, then, that we should learn to think correctly, and that we
should learn to adopt correct views about things which we believe; for
as we think of a matter, so we will treat it. If we adopt such views
of the Gospel that will lead us to conclude that a large amount of all
that has to be done for our benefit and salvation is the work of some
other individuals besides ourselves, it would be very natural for
this, in its tendency, and in the influence it would have and exert
over us, to lead our minds from that which would tend to our
emancipation from sin and iniquity.
There are certain prominent things connected with the Gospel as it is
generally treated, and as it has been revealed to us. The Son of God,
the Savior of the world, in the way that it has been taught to us, is
made to have a great share in it and a great deal to do with it. Some
suppose that he has done so much, and has made such peculiar kinds of
provisions for our wants and necessities, that there is but little
left for us to do—little more, perhaps, than to attend to a few
ordinances that are instituted for us: this is about all; but that the
great plan and work that bring salvation are things that belong to the
mission of Jesus Christ. If this is correct, it is what we ought to
believe; if it is not, it is that which we should expose; and we
should labor to undeceive the people; for we certainly ought to begin
to entertain correct views. If there is a work left for us to
do, it will be accomplished as the result of our exertions.
When we cling to what Jesus Christ has done for us, do you not see
that our part will never be done? We may pray and sing, and pay
Tithing, and go to church, and attend to all the outward forms of
religion, and attend to all those things that thousands believed in
doing, and then we shall find that our salvation will not be wrought
out.
Now, I am not myself very much in favor of preaching long sermons
about things that are a great way from home. Some people interest
themselves at times by telling and undertaking to explain how Gods are
made, and what they are made of, and all about it. There is only one
way that I have any idea of knowing anything about Gods. There is only
one class of them that I have had the privilege of forming an
acquaintance with; and I would only wish, on the present occasion, to
allude to this matter with a view to bring it down to our
capacities—to our circumstances, as a matter that is practical.
We entertain various notions with regard to the Savior of the world.
Now, whether this excellence that he possessed constituted him the Son
of God—the heir of all his Father's vast dominions, whether there were
any of them that he inherited, or whether he acquired all the great
and glorious qualities that he possessed, we will not now stop to
inquire. Now, if Jesus is regarded as God, and if we wish to learn his
history, let us read it as it is developed in the Scriptures; and if
he is God, and you would know the history of the Father, learn it in
the Son; for he assures us that he came to do the works which he saw his
Father do. Of Jesus it was said, "He was anointed with the oil of
gladness above his fellows," and for this reason—"he loved
righteousness, and hated iniquity."
This is the way matters look with us—the way we examine everything
that is presented to us. We are promised a victory over sin, if we
will break off our iniquities and our sins by turning to God. There is
no remarkable difference between us and Jesus, if he was anointed
because he loved righteousness. What is the difference? We have the
promise of becoming heirs of God, and joint heirs with him to all
those extensive domains possessed by the Father, upon the conditions
that we are as obedient to the commandments of God as Jesus was. Jesus
was anointed and preferred before others, from the simple fact that he
loved righteousness better than others, and hated iniquity more. And
hence it is written—"For it became him, for whom are all things, and
by whom are all things, in bringing many sons unto glory, to make the
captain of their salvation perfect through sufferings." (Heb. ii. 10.)
We are told, you perceive, in the history of the Son of God, that he
was made perfect through sufferings; and therefore we must conclude
that if he was made perfect, he must at some time (no matter when
that time might have been), have lacked that perfection which he
appears to have gained by the sufferings he experienced. "Well, but,"
says one, "of what practical benefit is that to us?" Simply this: We
learn that Jesus—the individual whom we have been taught to adore from
our infancy—to worship and revere—God our Father, possessed of an
infinitude of power, ability, and capacity for happiness and glory,
and for the accomplishment of his own will and pleasure, was once as
we are. Then to think that the same opportunity is extended to us,
that we may become all that he is that is great and good—to think
that, with all our faults and weak nesses—with all the
temptations that hang around us, the same privilege that is extended
to him of attaining salvation is also extended to us—that it is
simply salvation that was extended to Jesus, and that the same as that
which is extended to us. That heaven of glory and perfection which is
offered to us in the Gospel is the same that was offered to Jesus; and
the right to the possession of all those riches and this great glory
that was attained by him are equally open to us. This is encouraging
to me. Why? Because I am not only contemplating myself as a mortal
worm—a creature that is annoyed with the faults and follies of fallen
humanity, but I view myself in connection with this principle that is
associated with the work that is to prepare us to be associated in
that better condition, in which we view the Savior of the world as
existing in that perfect sunshine of bliss, enjoying the rich reward
of the saved and sanctified in the presence of God.
This view of the subject should create within us an ardent wish for
the same glory, remembering that this is the door—this the salvation
that is offered to us in the Gospel that we have received. But upon
what principle shall we avail ourselves of these blessings? Has Jesus
done anything that will bring salvation to you and me? The chief of
what he has done is that he has revealed the plan of the Gospel—the
scheme of human redemption, and manifested himself among his brethren;
and we may say he has done a great deal more, for he has shed his
blood for it. So have others shed their blood. But whose blood has
cleansed you and me? It is said that the blood of Jesus cleanses from
all sins. Then why is it that we remain sinners? It is simply because
the blood of Jesus has not cleansed us from sin—because it has not
reached us. What is the reason? It is because we have not been found
in that perfect path of obedience that ensures us a freedom from sin.
One of the old Apostles boasts of having been made a king and priest,
washed in the blood of Jesus. What was required of Jesus? He was
required to be baptized the same as you and I. He was required to walk
in the path of obedience, in order that he might be an example of that
obedience which is required of you and me, by which we may be cleansed
from sin.
We will suppose that Jesus had come into the world and died on Calvary
as he died, but that he had not left the principles of life in the
world. Suppose he had never called the humble fishermen and endowed
them, how much wiser would the world have been? Who would have been
delivered from sin? Who would have realized the blessings of the
Gospel of salvation? But Jesus lived, and Jesus died. Then what is it
that should make us rejoice? It is that Jesus, who was here, has
returned to the heavens—that his work is done. We should also be
thankful for the truths that he taught, for the many good things that
he said, for the Priesthood he left, through which the Gospel is
revealed, and a medium opened through which you and I could be brought
to the knowledge of the truth, accomplish that which will produce a
deliverance from sin.
Then let us not rejoice altogether because Jesus lived, or that he
died in the world, but that coming into the world he brought with him
the Priesthood—that he brought with him the power, the right to
officiate as well as to teach the Gospel of life; and by virtue of his
appointment he had power to appoint others to act in his name. When he
was crucified, and for a few days left this state of existence, it was
to open the door of salvation to a fallen world. Well, then,
it is the Gospel, after all, for which we respect Jesus. There was
nothing about Jesus but the Priesthood that he held and the Gospel
that he proclaimed that was so very singular. But he died for the
world. Yes; and what man that ever died for the truth,
did not die for the world? Prophets have died in our day. Men
have testified to the truth, and for that truth have died; but has
their blood redeemed us from the sin and transgression we were
previously guilty of? Have we found redemption through them? As far as
we have obtained it, it has been by walking in the truth. Jesus, who
was the bright and full reflection of the character of his Father, was
himself a perfect pattern of obedience. He not only recommended to
the world obedience, but was himself a living pattern and example of
that obedience which he taught, and through that obedience merited
that which was conferred upon him. Hence we read that he was exalted
above his brethren, simply because he loved righteousness and hated
iniquity; and it is that same principle that saves you and me. We may
talk of men being redeemed by the efficacy of his blood; but the truth
is that that blood has no efficacy to wash away our sins. That must
depend upon our own action.
Can Jesus free us from sin while we go and sin again? What is it that
frees us from sin? Did not Jesus preach the word of life? Yes. But who
is it that shall believe—that shall be benefited and instructed? It is
we that are to be redeemed. Jesus could preach of heaven, of the works
of Omnipotence, and the vastness of his creations, because he
understood them. And if we were only a little more enlightened, we
could probably understand a great deal more than we do; but in our
present darkness we need further instruction. Truth exists all around
us to a vast infinity, yet we pass on in our darkness from year to
year, and add folly to our transgressions, and still continue to hope
that yet, through Jesus, we shall be redeemed; but it will be when, by
our own actions, we shall be released from the thralldom of sin.
"Well," says one, "you do not think much of Jesus." Yes, I do.
"How
much?" I think he was a good man. "But," says the inquirer, "I
think
that is a very low estimate of him." What, then, would you have him to
be better than a good man? What and who is he? "Why," says one, "he
is
the Lord from heaven." Who are the characters or beings of whom the
Apostle spoke, when he said—"There are gods many and lords many?" I
suppose them to be good men. Jesus himself, when speaking in these
last days, and explaining to the Prophet of this great and last
dispensation, says, "Man of Holiness is my name; Man of Counsel is my
name." Well, what does this all show? Simply that Jesus was a man. We
also learn that his Father was a man.
Jesus came to do the will of his Father, and none other work than that
which he saw his Father do. And we, through our obedience, became
brethren and sisters with him, and joint heirs to the rich
inheritances that he is heir to. Why, the practicability of this
principle is demonstrated in the case of Jesus himself. He came to
this earth as a living example of the truth—of the fact that it was
possible that man, though weak and feeble, can be exalted, saved from
his ignorance, and exalted to the capacity of a God—that we, poor
worms of the dust, partakers of the evils and afflictions that trouble
and torment mortality—that we could be exalted—that we could come
into this low condition, and pass from that low state of
ignorance that we were in, and thereby gain an experience that would
fit us for exaltation. Then the Gospel comes to us as a source of
encouragement and comfort: therefore it should give us strength in our
weakness, when the way may appear dark and almost without hope—when
afflicted through the perplexities and hardships that we have to
encounter; for Jesus has traveled on the way himself: he has traveled
it, step by step, and piece by piece, and degree by degree, and has
experienced all the grievous afflictions that flesh is heir to. Has he
been exalted by it? We shall all say that he has. He has been exalted
from that degree of imperfection in which we exist to his present
condition, with power, might, and excellence, even all that is
possible for him to enjoy. Then if it is possible for you and I to
travel this same road, let us begin to inquire if we are doing it; for
be assured that if we obtain that victory and exaltation that he
possesses, it will be by doing as he did. He was obedient to the
truth. He did not even presume to shrink from the bitter cup, though
his feeling, as a man, rather inclined him to the seat of life. Hence,
said he, Father, I would a little rather that this cup pass by; but on
reflection he said, "Father, not my will, but thine, be done."
Well, now, how would we have distinguished between this offering and
one similar to the natural eye, but different in its design? Suppose a
thing of this kind had transpired with us—supposing that it would have
taken place in our midst, would we have any idea that it was a good
man, a man of integrity, that died? How could we have known this? When
he gives his own account of himself, he simply says, "Man of Holiness
is my name." He did not wish to have it understood that there was any
being in existence, no matter by what majesty, might, and power he
might be surrounded, that could go beyond the good men—the holy men.
What view does this lead us to take of the Gospel that this Jesus has
led us to look into? Simply that it is a practical system of piety,
purity, holiness, and truth—truth that is to be exhibited in our
actions, purity that is to extend to all our motives and designs, and
holiness that is to be a characteristic of our lives, and to extend to
all there is connected with our lives, our actions, and all that we do
and say; for the action of the mind is considered. If these thoughts
be correct—be pure, the actions that will reflect those thoughts will
be good and beneficial, and the body that sees it will be
correspondingly pure.
Then where is this purity to be wrought out—this propriety of
thought—this perfection of holiness? Where is it to be read of, that
we may be benefited by it—that we may travel in the way that Jesus has
traveled—that we may follow in the example that he has set? Can we
get our neighbor in the way to be the holy man, the righteous man,
for us, and we reap the reward in heaven? Oh no. We must be the
obedient men and women ourselves. We must be the patient men and
women, and feel all that forbearance and mercy, that loving kindness
and charity ourselves; we must be the men and the women that will put
on the habiliments of truth—the garments of holiness, and wear them
for ourselves. We must wear them day by day, month by month, year by
year, and forever.
I want you to see this, and to comprehend that the whole matter of
your salvation is your own business and work. What else has Jesus
done? What did he require of man? You examine principle in the Gospel
as it is taught to you, and what requirement of that Gospel
has been obeyed for you? None.
We are required to be obedient from the beginning unto the practice of
every virtue that the Gospel can open out. This is what is required of
you and me, that we may be saved and become just like Jesus. Then you
see that it is entirely a practical affair with every one of us. We
may theorize as much as we please, and talk about purity and holiness;
and as long as we theorize about them, we shall find that they will do
us no good—never, until we reduce them to practice and adopt that kind
of holiness that is acceptable to God. How can we know that one great
principle of obedience, excepting we comply with the requirements of
the Gospel? How can we know what is good for us, excepting we be tried
in these things? The Almighty is gratified when his purposes are
accomplished, and when we are preparing ourselves to be exalted and
admitted into his presence, that we may be prepared by that education
to be filled with that knowledge and clothed with power as himself—be
filled with that infinitude of capacity that he himself enjoys, and
that those principles may be so implanted in our being and sought by
us during our existence upon the earth, that we shall increase our own
greatness and the glory and power of our God.
"Well, but," says one, "where does this power come from? Does it come
from God?" We should answer, "Yes." Well, then, where did He get it
from? Did he inherit it? No, he did not. When we talk of the Father
and of Jesus, we can say they did not inherit it. Why do we say that
Jesus did not inherit this greatness and glory? Because he is
recommended to us as one who came to do nothing but what he had seen
his Father do (who, like Jesus, had once been imperfect), and that,
like him, he had risen to might, majesty, and power, and clothed
himself with the truth and with knowledge that endowed him with power
to act and to be acted upon, to design and to execute those designs.
Well, then, the power of God is—what? Why, it is the Gospel; and the
Apostle said that the Gospel was "the power of God unto salvation;"
and it is the salvation of every individual and everything that is
clothed with it.
Who is saved? Why, the individual that has power; and the individual
that possesses knowledge has power. It is just as the Apostle says—he
was not ashamed of that Gospel that was the power of God unto
salvation, that was revealed by Him that loved righteousness and hated
iniquity.
The Gospel, then, as preached unto us, is the power of God that saves.
What does it do? It enlightens that which is dark; it gives us power
where all is weakness before; it endows us with capacity where before
there was no capacity, and where there was no strength.
This is what the Gospel does for us: it is that which saves and fills
our minds with that which we need not be ashamed of; and it is the
simple fact that we should carry to our home, to our firesides, to
correct the evils that exist between man and man, between parents and
children, husbands and wives: but it is, nevertheless, the power of
God that saves. It is that which tranquilizes the power of the soul
that is not wholly under the principles of truth. It is not like the
empty proclamation of enthusiasm, but it is deliverance to the
captives; it is freedom to the sick soul—to the soul that is in the
dark, that knows not the truth, that has no hope that reaches into the
vast future, and opens up prospects for the immortality and the
salvation of the souls of men. This is the way that the Gospel opens
to us in regard to the salvation of the soul: it will make
everything in the soul tranquil as the blest in heaven. It is that
which must abide constantly within us; it is that which must be
developed in our homes. Why? That all the members of that home may
become legitimate lovers of the truth, be truthful in all they do and
say, and be calculated by their good works to subserve the ends of
righteousness and peace, and to bring about the purposes of God.
"Why," says one, "the Gospel seems to be a great matter to be carried
to the simple circles of our homes, and for it to enter into the
trivial affairs of our everyday life; it seems to be a small matter
to that vast infinitude of greatness and glory in its fulness that we
seek to enjoy in a future state."
Brethren and sisters, what greatness you expect to enjoy, what you
intend to enjoy in the fountain of bliss that lies before the Saints!
The origin of all this, the region where it must be commenced is in
the soul, at the firesides, within the circle of your family. Where is
it to come from? If the blessings developed that constitute the
happiness of the saved and sanctified, that enrich the pleasures of
those that have passed away, are attainable, why have we not been
blessed? Why has not the Gospel brought salvation to our firesides and
to our homes? Why, we have naught but imperfections of our own. But
these could not stand in the way; for the blood of Jesus could have
cleansed us from sin, aside from our own works, according to the
feelings of some. Then why is it that we are these slaves of sin, and
are afflicted with the consequences thereof? Why is it that the
sanctuary of home is deprived of these blessings? The Gospel that
saved Jesus, that clothed him with power, that bestowed upon him all
the perfections that he possessed as a God, why has it not wrought out
its work with us? Our firesides have not been blessed with the harmony
and bliss that is affected by its purity and hallowed influence. We
would not inquire where is heaven, or say how far it is from us, from
our homes; for there would be a fountain of bliss to anyone who would
partake of the food that angels feed upon—who would partake and
realize the perfection in which they dwell, and the harmony by which
they are associated, and those that dwell with them. Then it would be
no matter of uncertainty with us; neither should we care whether
heaven was a little way off, or at a vast or immeasurable distance;
for then in our homes, within our own family circles, would be that
heaven and happiness for which we are seeking. There would be
perfection; there would be the beauty of holiness in spirit and in
truth.
Now, this is the religion that should be developed at home; it should
be of domestic manufacture as well as the clothes that we wear; and
their beauty, you know we are told, should consist in the beauty of
the workmanship of our own hands.
If we realized that our salvation depended upon our living in peace at
home with our wives and children, and upon our cherishing the
principles of virtue, of holiness, and of purity, do you suppose that
we should ever be at a loss for an opportunity of doing some good? Do
you suppose we should ever be at a loss to do something that would
save the cause of truth? Our homes and our heaven would ever be with
us. The constitution and establishment of our homes in peace, and
making that happiness, and giving that satisfaction which will produce
it, constitute the burden of our labor at home and abroad.
But we are called to go and preach the Gospel to distant nations,
simply that the honest may be gathered together and have homes like
you and I, until a nation shall be imbued with the principle
of that heavenly government that we talk and read so much about, that
the will of God may be done on earth as it is done in heaven.
According to this, then, the object is the same, whether you labor at
home or abroad. I want this riveted on your memories—to have you
think upon it every day. I do not want you to think that you can live
your religion while you are quarrelling with your wives every day; I
do not want you to think that you are traveling the road to salvation
while you are quarrelling with everybody around you. What is the
difficulty? What causes this quarrelling? "Why," says the man, "my
wife has a contentious spirit: she is not going to heaven; she is not
going on the road to those perfections that will bring her to a
perfect and sanctified state: she has put far from her the day of
sanctification." Then, as ministers of righteousness, I want you to go
to work at home. Why? Simply because home is the place where you
should live your religion.
"But," says one, "I am going to wait until I go on a mission; then I
will devote all my time to serving the Lord."
If you wait till then, when you are gone thousands of miles away, what
will your wife and children do? Who, having wife and children, and
having labored to bring them here, and lived with them here from year
to year, will neglect to develop in them the principles that will save
and make them happy in time, and exalt them in eternity? I want you to
save them by implanting in them correct principles; and then, if you
are called to go abroad, you can teach the people the principles that
will save, for you will have learned them at home. Then, if they
should apostatize when they have been gathered here, as some do, to
our own sorrow and to theirs too, you would have the confidence and
consolation of knowing that your own family were saved, because you
had taught them the principles of salvation while you were with them.
Then why do some seem so anxious to live their religion abroad, while
they neglect to teach and practice it at home? It is evident that they
do not enjoy the spirit of the Gospel; and if they have not within
them the principles of purity and holiness, and do not live their
religion at home, what assurance have we that they will live it when
they get thousands of miles from their friends?
I want you to go to work in your own circles, and cultivate the
principles of righteousness, and let the world go their own way. Do
not trouble about how your neighbors are getting along, but seek to
make your own home the dwelling place of God; seek to make it a
sanctuary where the richest blessings of God shall be enjoyed—where
the truth shall be kept in rich stores to bless you and yours. Then
that point will become a point of attraction to which your affections
may repair with feelings of satisfaction. And if you go abroad, your
peace will be increased with the reflection that you have left your
family stationed upon the immutable and sure basis of eternal truth;
and while time passes, and the angels of heaven carry you safely
along, your friends and connections at home are still wending their
way onward to the haven of peace and rest, where all is right—where
peace and joy flow like a river to those who are sanctified through
the truth.
Now, do not excuse yourselves because you are Seventies, and are
therefore called to go abroad as special witnesses to the nations; for
we are called to save our own: that is our first duty. It is true we
can do a great deal towards bringing others to a knowledge of
the truth; and if we can preach to the world—to those that are afar
off, we can also preach to those that are near to us, and save them;
and how? Do as much to save them as Jesus has done, and then we shall
have done our duty. What is it that he has told us? He told us how to
save ourselves with the principles of virtue, righteousness, and
peace; and let us so live that those principles may be in the young
men that are growing up around our hearths. There is nothing that is
important to some except it is a great way off. But the foundation of
purity should be at our homes: there God should dwell; there God
should reign in all the greatness of his glory, and in all the
perfection of his attributes. Where will this be? Why, wherever there
is a good man—a man devoted to the truth, whose affections are
identified with it and for it, and who loves righteousness and hates
iniquity, as Jesus did. This is the way I want you to live, and then
there will be less wickedness—fewer lies told—less tattling by the
fireside about your neighbors. The husband and wife will have less
difficulties of a character and kind that are unendurable. If we can
come down from the exaltedness of our feelings and humble ourselves,
we can avoid most of the evils that are common among mankind.
Who have these kinds of difficulties to which I have alluded? People
that are very religious—people that go to church—people that are
favored in various ways, and who preach long sermons for the benefit
of such as themselves. What is the reason that they are not saved?
Why, simply because they never have time to live their
religion—because they never had an idea that to live their religion
was to be at peace at home—that the paying their Tithing was offering
an offering that would be acceptable to God; and those who did think
so, had an idea that that of itself would save them. I want you to
understand that it is all nonsense to take the latter position.
"What," says one, "should we not pay our Tithing?" Should we
not pray?
Yes, pray, and pay your Tithing. But this is not all: I want you to
pray God Almighty to bless you with strength, with forbearance, with
charity, that you may be merciful to each other's weaknesses, and that
you may look with tender compassion upon one another, as God looks
upon us, his children, all the day long. This is what I want you to
pray for. And husbands, if your wives speak harsh words, don't speak
another in return. "But," says one, "how can I bear it?" Why,
hold
your tongue. You talk of ruling nations, kingdoms, principalities, and
powers, and yet cannot hold your tongue! What wise rulers you would
make!
I suppose, when the Bishop was made or ordained, you all thought that
you ought to have been made Bishops—you were so clever, so
accomplished, and so well qualified to rule, in your own estimation. I
want you to prove that you are capable of being Bishops, by keeping
your mouths shut when a storm of passion arises within you. Let it
die. Never let the world hear the breath of heaven wafting away the
ill-spoken word—the hasty declaration. No, never. Why not? Because, if
hell is within you, keep it there. "Why," says one, "is it not just as
bad to think of hell as it is to speak it out?" No—not half as bad.
Why? Because, if you thought of killing me, and were not to do it, I
should not be hurt. But, if you took away my life, then I should be
hurt. Hence, then, you see, there is a difference between thinking and
doing. I want you husbands and wives to carry this home with you, and
learn to hold your tongue, when you have nothing but some miserable,
provoking thing to say. "Well, but," says one man, "my wife
acts so like the Devil that I cannot get along with her. I thought I
was married to an angel, but I have found out I was deceived, and that
she is a fiend." If you were such a fool as to marry a wife of that
kind, you ought to learn a little by experience.
Now, knowledge is power; and if you have married a woman that does not
answer your expectations, that is not an angel, that does not abound
in goodness, and that is not the very quintessence of perfection, what
will you do? I will go and get a divorce. Then what will you do? Live
single? No. You will marry another, then? You answer, "Yes." Then you
will live with her, conquer her, and control her, I suppose? "Yes,"
says one, "that seems like the idea; and I will go home and let my
wife know that she has got to mind me and obey me." Why, what are you
going to do? "If she don't obey me, I will chastise her; I will beat
her." I presume you mean to treat her in the way that some of us are
accustomed to treat our mules? "Yes," says the man, "I will let her
know that she has got to obey me."
You poor miserable souls who think thus, if you go home and whip your
wives because of what I say to you tonight upon family government,
the sin shall lie at your own door, and the lash that will be upon you
shall be far more severe than anything that you can inflict upon your
poor wives.
I want you to go home and let them know that you are better men, that
you are improving, that you are better than they, and that you are
improving in righteousness faster than they are. Then, if your wife is
disposed to quarrel, she will soon get tired of it; she will turn to
righteousness and follow your holy example. Then let me urge upon you
the necessity of proving to your wives that there is more consistency
in your conduct than there is in theirs, and that you are capable of
living without saying harsh things yourselves.
Brethren, this is the way I want you to govern your wives, and in
ninety-nine cases out of every hundred you will succeed in governing
them in righteousness; they will be faithful and true to you, and to
the Gospel that has been revealed in this dispensation. And if you get
a little mortified with something that may transpire, which is often
the case, your wife would adopt the course that she has seen adopted
by you: she would hold her tongue, unless she could say some very
pleasing thing; and in this way there will be peace established in
your home. Whenever there is peace, and the home circle lives in peace
and quietude, the blessings of heaven and the revelations of the Holy
Spirit will be there; its inspiration will be there, and it will be
like a burning, never-dying flame within you, and you will walk
together in peace and in harmony. You won't stumble and die in the
way; there will be no difference of feeling; but the twine of family
affection will grow stronger, day by day, and year by year; and the
passing year will add intensity to that affection that is within you,
and you will have an increased determination to live your religion.
Then your children would see in their parents an example for speaking
the truth and acting truthfully to each other. Then there would be an
example before them, and they would, no doubt, obey the truth, and
regard you as truthful and sincere in all your expressions, whether in
regard to the things of God or those of a more trivial character. They
would then see that you struggled not only to speak of the truth, but
to exhibit it in all the actions of your lives.
This is the way I want you to live your religion in this Ward; this is
the way I want you to sustain your Bishop, that he may not be
taxed with all the little difficulties of your domestic circles. He is
a little man, and it is enough for him to be taxed with the general
business of the Ward. I want you to understand that he has need of
what you promised him. Did you not promise him that you would sustain
him by your works as well as by your faith? I want you to redeem that
promise; for if it had not been necessary for you to do this, it would
not have been asked. Then sustain your Bishop, and uphold him. "But,"
says one, "I do not know that it is my business. If he is not smart
enough, let the proper authorities put in another." Why, bless you,
the authorities did not want the smartest men; but they wanted to
prove to the world that the Lord could make those smart whom he called
and ordained. "Why," says one, "you do not think much of our Bishop;
you do not appear to estimate him very highly." Yes, I do; but I want
you to understand that he has got his own weaknesses and faults to
contend with, the same as other men, and just as much of yours as you
put upon him. I want you that are smart men to resolve yourselves into
bishops, and to play the Bishop's part at home, and to adopt the
principles that he inculcates in your home circles. How very few there
are who do this! But it is not too late to learn to judge
righteously—to create quietude and peace, virtue and holiness, at your
own homes. Then who will there be to annoy the Bishop with their
troubles? Who will be sending to the President for a divorce, when you
all get your little wards at home thoroughly disciplined? This you can
do, by being united, more effectually than he can; for he cannot be
always with you. Then you can bring out your little wards, and let him
have the advantage of a leaf out of your books.
But if you cannot do this, hold your tongues and be ashamed, and just
conclude that you will fulfil the promise that you made, and
strengthen him, and simply because he needs strength; and aid him all
you can; afford him all the comfort you can; and this will bring you
together in the principles of truth: it unites you in one, so that
your action will be one; your feelings and your spirit will be one,
and you will walk in the same path together and be agreed.
Take this course in regard to living your religion, and you do well.
But possibly you do not need any of this instruction. If you do not, I
am very glad of it. And if you have qualified yourselves and
cultivated your minds to that degree of perfection that you do not
need it here, you may just pass it over to your neighbors. Let
righteousness be developed in this Ward, and let that unanimity of
feeling be manifested that will cause the instructions of your Bishop
to be warmly received; and let faith be exercised for him, that he may
be full of knowledge and power, and have influence among the people
for whose good he labors day by day. This is the way I want you to
act in regard to this matter; and, to do this effectually, you must
make all things right at home. Do not leave this great work for the
Bishop alone, but let it be the duty of every man in the home circle,
and there will be unanimity throughout the Ward; and to the Bishop
will be given what is required in his official capacity, and he will
have power and strength, and he will be estimated to some extent by
the influence which he exercises over the men that are in his Ward.
Well, then, what else shall we do? you may now inquire. There is
another matter I want to engage you in. I want your help in a
cautious, but effectual crusade against stealing. "Well, but," says
one, "the President said we could not stop stealing." This is not what
I was going to ask you to do; but I want every good man in
this Ward to consider himself a missionary and a minister. I want you
to get hold of the young men, and to advise them as fathers should
advise them. "Well, but," says one, "the young men here in this Ward
have fathers; and if I should presume to give them advice, their
fathers will be displeased." I do not suppose they would. At least, I
think you may venture to carry out my advice.
The spirit of thieving stalks abroad in our land, and it has its
advocates among the people. It gets hold of the unguarded youth, and
causes them to steal from their neighbors, being unguarded by the
truth. You fathers, do you know this to be true? "Yes," say some, "we
hear that there is stealing done over yonder (pointing towards the
west), and that it is Bill Hickman and his gang that do it. But do you
know that there is a thief who visits your son and corrupts his
morals, and who is making him believe there is no harm in stealing
from a Gentile?
"Oh, to be sure," say you; "I know that such a man visits my son. I
don't know exactly where my son is now, but he is about the city
somewhere." This is what I want you should know. Make it your business
to know where your sons are, for they have only to go into some of the
streets of the city to meet with thieves who tell them there is no
harm in stealing from the Gentiles, and who tell them that the
Presidency of the Church say so. This is the way the lies were told
about us, to lead the unwise and unwary from the truth. Do you want to
save yourselves from the scorn and disgrace that will cover your son
wherever he goes? If you do, watch over your sons and also over the
associations that they form. To you that have daughters, I would say,
Watch over them, or by-and-by you will come to your friends with a
pitiful face, saving, O my poor daughter, she is gone! Where? To Camp
Floyd, to the States, and to the Devil. O my daughter, that we have
raised carefully, and we thought she would live to honor us; but,
alas, she has gone!
Yes; but you did not know, while she was with you, that she was
forming an acquaintance with habits and making associations with those
things that have succeeded in removing her beyond your reach. "True,
she went to every dancing party," says the unsuspecting father; "but
how could I refuse her the privilege?" Perhaps the Bishop was called
to go and pray for them, in order to sanctify the affair; and perhaps
she went with the son of your neighbor whom you regard; and hence you
will say, How can I refuse and offend my brother? Yes, offend your
brother; for that is worth less than the salvation of your child.
"But," says one, "shall we not let our children go to parties?"
Yes,
let them go; I would not dare to advise you not to let them go. And
why? Because it would not do any good.
If your daughters associate with those that have no interest in the
truth, advise them to discontinue their intimacy with such persons,
and enjoin upon them the necessity of pursuing that course that will
preserve them in purity and keep them in the truth. If your daughter
will go, what then? Why, let her go. Do not break her neck to keep
her, for she would not be in heaven if her neck was broken.
I allude to this simply to elucidate the truth, and to show the way
those things are accomplished of which I have been speaking. Perhaps
your daughters have not associated with Gentiles, you may say. I would
as soon my daughter would associate with some Gentiles as with many
that profess to be Saints, especially those who have nothing to talk
about but balderdash, and nothing in their minds but the wicked plans
concocted by corrupt hearts.
I allude to these things thus pointedly and minutely, because they
will affect your happiness and well-being, as well as that of your
children. Do not undertake to crowd things to extremes, to obtain any
of the blessings I have alluded to. Do not commit a greater evil than
those that already exist, by creating others.
I pray that you may so strive to cultivate a love for the Spirit of
God, and a love for his people, that you may constantly be under the
guidance of that Spirit, and always have it abiding in you, that you
may do everything in favor of the truth, dwell happily beneath its
influence, and lead your children in the way of life. That this may be
your happy lot, through diligence and obedience in the Gospel, is my
prayer, in the name of Jesus. Amen.
- Amasa M. Lyman